Namma Friends.

This life was beautiful they made it even beautiful. I'll stand for them in need, i love each one, respect each one, they are the reason i smile. Now it feels that this life is incomplete without them. Many a times i miss the pals the most, wondering where the hell they are lost.

They are the people whom i met turning infinite pages of life. Initially they were somebody, now they are my buddies. Over the time they have become epitome of this wonderful experience. They are some special people, god presented me with, they are ...........

Our inside jokes-too many to name. 
When we're apart it's never the same.

When we're together it's nothing but fun.
Replacing my friends just can't be done.

As the years pass, and we grow apart. 
I want you to know, that you guys are still in my heart.

You helped me through problems, through things good and bad. 
You helped me keep smiling :-), even when I was sad.

You helped me in dire straits, you made me stay strong. 
How will I live, when you guys are gone? 

And where the years take us, no place is too far. 
We will think of each other, wherever we are. 

You're wonderful people, with good hearts to lend. 
And I want you to know, that you'll will always be my Best Friends.

P.S. : # Shared stuff  #Nostalgic

Being Superstitious.

"Superstition" The small world can debate long over this large word. If it works in favour, we name it fortunate (luck factor) or otherwise if it goes against us, we name it unfortunate (omens). Also, there are people all over the world, around us as well, who do all the bad unfortunate things still they master the world. It all made me think, is there something like superstitious power or not which is so potent that can better us in this rationale world. I believe it is.

When i look back in time even from childhood days, i had branded many things with the tag of my lucky things. Whether it be a pen, a pencil, a bag, a shirt and a-lot other. They were not brought out of some Pandora's box, they were same usual stuff that i came across in my daily life. But there was something special associated with that stuff. As, an exam written with my lucky pen/pencil turned out to be the high scoring one, so there must have been something hidden in that pen. Indeed there was something.

Let me put it the other way as well. We all are occupied by various rituals, many of these practises exist to rectify omens out of our lives. Also there is a term called triskaidekaphobia fear of number thirteen because in major part of the world the number thirteen is considered as an unlucky number. Does this superstition about number thirteen can bring bad luck to us. Can these ritualistic practises make us more fortunate. Lets bite some sour grapes now, i was born on the thirteenth does it make me an unlucky fellow. Also there is one more flaw, i haven't carried any of my lucky stuff with me as i am growing old, so does it mean that i have rejected my kismet ?

The answer is no, a big "NO". The rationale behind all the fortunate things is not there hidden in the stuff but it is there within us only. It's not the pen that escalated the score in the exam but the impression left by the faith did. The faith in possession of that pen made the exam a cakewalk. The positive energy of having the pen with me was the reason behind the success. Same goes in case of unfortunate or superstitious episodes, they leave an ugly impression in our mind that arises fear, in other words a lot of negative energy.

Besides, whenever we find ourselves in some pathetic situations, we pray to god. Because we have faith in god, so it is the faith that god has intervened, now everything will be all right make us better the situation. Furthermore reason behind people wining against the odds, despite doing all the so called unfortunate things, is for them all such things do not ever existed. Either they are alien to the unfortunate word or they just don't accept it. Therefore i believe it's not some mystic power in the stuff but the magical power of our mind that makes all the phenomenal happenings occur. Name it faith, belief, luck or anything. It happens because of the power of positive attitude of our own mind. Trust me, have faith in god; it has some incredible powers.

Aren't We Wasting It ?

Haven't wrote anything for quite a long time.It usually does not happen, but this time i have left a big gap.
why ?
Um....I was thinking, Yes "I was THINKING".

I mentioned it earlier as well, that i am a deep thinker who thinks a lot of shit. However all these days i was occupied by mundane affairs, social attachments, emotional hookups and the trauma of what will happen now, in short a lot of reckoning. Even when i stated to write this post i was thinking that why do i think so much or what did i get by thinking that much or why is it that difficult to resist or second these emotions at the first place? And finally, why all these days i was cribbing over trivial things and not working to get out of it. (Lot of whys. why ?) But now, i know, i was wasting it.

Though in-between these days something made me think to get back to the this write-up, and it really deserved the attention (Again a thought- god has given me some disastrous thought processing head which never stops thinking). Last week, I visited a place where i encountered some underprivileged people, some differently abled people, some affected by serious disease. In short they were living a totally different life; which no one likes to embrace, enough difficult than the one we live. And again my beautiful mind pinged me that if i keep wasting my life thinking over pity things i wont stand any chance to keep this circle of life moving. And even worst, if i find myself in any of these miserable states, how would i be able to get along in this life, when, being in privileged state, i crib over stupid things. I felt, i am not doing any justice to myself and i felt pity of myself. And finally i asked myself.

Why are we living to die another day?
As some day we want to go back to live the life of our own desire, we always wanted to live. So why not today itself. But with the hindsight, i realised that everybody is just pushing himself to earn a living, a wage or some nasty things.Yes it is necessary but, believe me, life is not just about earning a living, even a billion dollars wont buy happiness or bring some joy to the life. No one ever lives forever, so don't just waste a life thinking too much on anything. Stop worrying about debts, money, power, failures, they are part of our lives and a lot of them would come as we approach our ends. Time passes so fast like the smoke through a key hole.

Just stop thinking you did something wrong, tell your friends and family that u love them don't shy because there may not be tomorrow to greet them, love yourself unconditionally. Stop looking for answer outside of yourself, take every moment as an opportunity, see the opportunities in every challenge rather than give up. Be your weird, crazy, beautiful self. Follow your heart. See the world as a beautiful, safe, and loving place. See everyone as equals. Give up all attachments to stuff. Recognise the journey is the reward. Stay hopeful and optimistic in difficult situations. Welcome all life lessons. Live your values and inspire others by your own bigness.

Love, emotions, attachments, failures etc. are part of our lives. They have natural tendency to occupy us, resist them using your mind. So the epilogue doesn't lies in betraying your loved ones or behaving like a callous or ending earning a living.The deduction is treasure what you have with u, live like its the last day, fulfil your own desires or else you'll be betraying yourself. You have all your answers within you. Your mind is beautiful use it and make your own bucket list.

A piece of advice : Watch this movie  'The Bucket List'.